So I conclude. That I do find it hard, very hard to say "no".
And I deduce. That much as I hate to be rejected, I hate to have to turn people down too. Especially when you have to explain the "no" or at least deal with some disappointment.
Solution?
Minimize, if not eliminate, the chances that I actually have to slam the door in someone's face, or be slammed upon.
How?
Go out less. Talk less. Suggest less. Initiate less. Appear less.
Maybe I could run more. Read more. Sleep more. Disappear more.
Or perhaps, really, the first move to saying "no" more is to start saying "yes" less.
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